now connid's are allocated on demand and clients may have as many connid's as necessary.
this allows us to build chains of helpers while ensuring the ircd properly tracks and GCs the resources.
Add REHASH SSLD (admins only) that starts new sslds and marks the
existing ones as inactive until all their clients disconnect.
Very useful whenever the SSL library has a vulnerability because
new connections can use a new version of the library without
disconnecting existing clients/servers.
Add STATS S (admins only) to list ssld processes, status, and client
count.
It's possible for which_ssld to fail and return NULL, handle this in
start_ssld_connect and start_ssld_accept by returning NULL. The NULL
return value is already handled in all calls to start_ssld_accept,
so handle this for start_ssld_connect by reporting an error connecting.
Handle it in start_zlib_session by exiting the client.
