Removes circular deps for lists in tooling and bumps down byte limit for lists (#100082)

## Summary

* Removes circular deps exception for lists
* Bumps down byte limit for lists now that we have decreased the page bytes to be under 200kb

packages/kbn-optimizer/limits.yml

@@ -46,7 +46,7 @@ pageLoadAssetSize:
   lens: 96624
   licenseManagement: 41817
   licensing: 29004
-  lists: 280504
+  lists: 200000
   logstash: 53548
   management: 46112
   maps: 80000

src/dev/run_find_plugins_with_circular_deps.ts

@@ -19,9 +19,7 @@ interface Options {
 
 type CircularDepList = Set<string>;
 
-const allowedList: CircularDepList = new Set([
-  'x-pack/plugins/lists -> x-pack/plugins/security_solution',
-]);
+const allowedList: CircularDepList = new Set([]);
 
 run(
   async ({ flags, log }) => {