Change distributed locking to allow taking bulk locks
across objects, reduces usually 1000 calls to 1.
Also allows for situations where multiple clients sends
delete requests to objects with following names
```
{1,2,3,4,5}
```
```
{5,4,3,2,1}
```
will block and ensure that we do not fail the request
on each other.
we don't need to validateFormats again once we have obtained
reference format, because it is possible that at this stage
another server is doing a disk heal during startup, once
in a while due to delays we get false positives and our
server doesn't start.
Format in quorum as reference format can be assumed as valid
and we proceed further, until and unless HealFormat re-inits
the disks after a successful heal.
Also use separate port for healing tests to avoid any
conflicts with regular build testing.
Fixes#8884
Zone abstraction of object layer was returning `nil`
incorrectly under situations where disk healing is
not required. Returning `nil` is considered as healing
successful, which leads to unexpected ReloadFormat()
peer notification calls during startup.
This PR fixes this behavior properly for zones.
Use reference format to initialize lockers
during startup, also handle `nil` for NetLocker
in dsync and remove *errorLocker* implementation
Add further tuning parameters such as
- DialTimeout is now 15 seconds from 30 seconds
- KeepAliveTimeout is not 20 seconds, 5 seconds
more than default 15 seconds
- ResponseHeaderTimeout to 10 seconds
- ExpectContinueTimeout is reduced to 3 seconds
- DualStack is enabled by default remove setting
it to `true`
- Reduce IdleConnTimeout to 30 seconds from
1 minute to avoid idleConn build up
Fixes#8773
