Fix compilation with VS16.10 and later (#10208)

## Summary of the Pull Request

VS16.10 and later contain two regressions:
* Marking the use of `pshpack*.h` in system headers with C4103
* The newly included, builtin `AssemblyReference.xaml` is missing the `AssemblyReferences` project capability

## PR Checklist
* [x] I work here

## Validation Steps Performed

Built the project with VS16.10 and VS17.0.

.github/actions/spelling/allow/microsoft.txt

@@ -7,6 +7,7 @@ appx
 appxbundle
 appxerror
 appxmanifest
+ATL
 backplating
 bitmaps
 BOMs

.github/actions/spelling/expect/alphabet.txt

@@ -2,10 +2,7 @@ AAAa
 AAAAA
 AAAAAAAAAAAAA
 AAAAAABBBBBBCCC
-AAAAABBBBBBBCCC
 AAAAABBBBBBCCC
-AAAAABCCCCCCCCC
-AAAAADCCCCCCCCC
 abcd
 abcd
 abcde

.github/actions/spelling/expect/expect.txt

@@ -183,7 +183,6 @@ bytebuffer
 cac
 cacafire
 callee
-cang
 capslock
 CARETBLINKINGENABLED
 CARRIAGERETURN
@@ -1368,7 +1367,6 @@ MEASUREITEM
 megamix
 memallocator
 memcmp
-memcopy
 memcpy
 memmove
 memset
@@ -1968,7 +1966,6 @@ rftp
 rgb
 rgba
 rgbi
-rgch
 rgci
 rgfae
 rgfte
@@ -2044,8 +2041,6 @@ scriptload
 Scrollable
 scrollback
 scrollbar
-Scrolldown
-Scrolldownpage
 Scroller
 SCROLLFORWARD
 SCROLLINFO
@@ -2053,8 +2048,6 @@ scrolllock
 scrolloffset
 SCROLLSCALE
 SCROLLSCREENBUFFER
-Scrollup
-Scrolluppage
 scursor
 sddl
 sdeleted
@@ -2069,7 +2062,6 @@ selectany
 SELECTEDFONT
 SELECTSTRING
 Selfhosters
-serializer
 serializers
 SERVERDLL
 SETACTIVE

src/common.build.pre.props

@@ -96,8 +96,17 @@
       <TreatSpecificWarningsAsErrors>4189;4100;4242;4389;4244</TreatSpecificWarningsAsErrors>
       <!--<WarningLevel>EnableAllWarnings</WarningLevel>-->
       <TreatWarningAsError>true</TreatWarningAsError>
-      <!-- disable warning on nameless structs (4201) -->
+      <!--
-      <DisableSpecificWarnings>4201;4312;4467;%(DisableSpecificWarnings)</DisableSpecificWarnings>
+        C4103: alignment changed after including header, may be due to missing #pragma pack(pop)
+          Caused by a regression in VS 16.10, it detects the use of /pshpack[1248].h/ in system headers.
+        C4201: nonstandard extension used: nameless struct/union
+          Conhost code uses a lot of nameless structs/unions.
+        C4312: 'type cast': conversion from 'A' to 'B' of greater size
+          Conhost code converts DWORDs to HANDLEs for instance.
+        C4467: usage of ATL attributes is deprecated
+          Conhost code still uses ATL.
+      -->
+      <DisableSpecificWarnings>4103;4201;4312;4467;%(DisableSpecificWarnings)</DisableSpecificWarnings>
       <PreprocessorDefinitions>_WINDOWS;EXTERNAL_BUILD;%(PreprocessorDefinitions)</PreprocessorDefinitions>
       <SDLCheck>true</SDLCheck>
       <PrecompiledHeaderFile>precomp.h</PrecompiledHeaderFile>

src/wap-common.build.pre.props

@@ -31,6 +31,26 @@
     </ProjectConfiguration>
   </ItemGroup>
 
+  <!--
+    VS 16.10 contains a regression, which causes our solution to fail loading.
+
+    In Visual Studio you'll see:
+      Visual Studio ran into an unexpected problem with one or more projects.
+      You may need to reload affected projects or the solution to prevent further problems.
+      [Open log file] [Reload faulted project(s)]
+
+    The log file points to the following error:
+      System.InvalidOperationException: There is no project properties provider for "Persistence = AssemblyReference".
+
+    This error is caused by the following lines in our Microsoft.UI.Xaml dependency:
+      https://github.com/microsoft/microsoft-ui-xaml/blob/v2.5.0/build/NuSpecs/MUXControls-Nuget-Native.targets#L9-L11
+
+    See _DevDiv_ work item MSFT:1328040.
+  -->
+  <ItemGroup>
+    <ProjectCapability Include="AssemblyReferences" />
+  </ItemGroup>
+
   <PropertyGroup>
     <WapProjPath Condition="'$(WapProjPath)'==''">$(MSBuildExtensionsPath)\Microsoft\DesktopBridge\</WapProjPath>
     <!-- Turn off the 6+MB Windows.winmd that's emitted into our package