[Defapp] Use real HPCON for PTY management; Have Monarch always listen for connections
## PR Checklist
* [x] Closes#9464
* [x] Related to #9475 - incomplete fix
* [x] I work here.
* [x] Manual test
## Detailed Description of the Pull Request / Additional comments
- Sometimes peasants can't manage to accept a connection appropriately because I wrote defterm before @zadjii-msft's monarch/peasant architecture. The simple solution here is to just make the monarch always be listening for inbound connections. Then COM won't start a peasant with -Embedding just to ask the monarch where it should go. It'll just join the active window. I didn't close 9475 because it should follow monarch policies on which window to join... and it doesn't yet.
- A lot of interesting things are happening because this didn't have a real HPCON. So I passed through the remaining handles (and re-GUID-ed the interface) that made it possible for me to pack the right process handles and such into an HPCON on the inbound connection and monitor that like any other ConptyConnection. This should resolve some of the process exit behaviors and signal channel things like resizing.
- Implements the default application behavior and handoff mechanisms
between console and terminal. The inbox portion is done already. This
adds the ability for our OpenConsole.exe to accept the incoming server
connection from the Windows OS, stand up a PTY session, start the
Windows Terminal as a listener for an incoming connection, and then
send it the incoming PTY connection for it to launch a tab.
- The tab is launched with default settings at the moment.
- You must configure the default application using the `conhost.exe`
propsheet or with the registry keys. Finishing the setting inside
Windows Terminal will be a todo after this is complete. The OS
Settings panel work to surface this setting is a dependency delivered
by another team and you will not see it here.
## Validation Steps Performed
- [x] Manual adjust of registry keys to the delegation conhost/terminal
behavior
- [x] Adjustment of the delegation options with the propsheet
- [x] Launching things from the run box manually and watching them show
in Terminal
- [x] Launching things from shortcuts and watching them show in the
Terminal
Documentation on how it works will be a TODO post completion in #9462
References #7414 - Default Terminal spec
Closes#492
