Stop startup crash by logging when monarch fails to register inbound connections, but still crash when COM attempted to start us
## References
- See also #10243
## PR Checklist
* [x] Closes#10233
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## Detailed Description of the Pull Request / Additional comments
- This should stop the crash on launch until we can get the internal teams to resolve the catalog issue
- I left the COM -Embedding start fail fast though so it won't take forever to time out (as default timeout is 3-5 minutes). I will change that if it becomes necessary.
## Validation Steps Performed
- I basically have to guess at this one based on the crash dump and Watson logs because it happens sporadically when the platform messes up on us.
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