Merge e390027cc5 into 5c0ceec2a6

This should avoid confusions with logs like:

```
time="2024-04-08T08:38:45.104235081Z" level=error msg="Failed to set \"scs.ems.host\" as assumed offline" func="github.com/matrix-org/dendrite/federationapi/statistics.(*ServerStatistics).Failure" file="github.com/matrix-org/dendrite/federationapi/statistics/statistics.go:204" error="sqlutil.WithTransaction.Begin: sql: database is closed"
time="2024-04-08T08:38:45.104239201Z" level=error msg="Failed to set \"obermui.de\" as assumed offline" func="github.com/matrix-org/dendrite/federationapi/statistics.(*ServerStatistics).Failure" file="github.com/matrix-org/dendrite/federationapi/statistics/statistics.go:204" error="sqlutil.WithTransaction.Begin: sql: database is closed"
```

or 

```
time="2024-04-08T08:38:45.105235411Z" level=error msg="Failed to get pending EDUs for \"retro76.net\"" func="github.com/matrix-org/dendrite/federationapi/queue.(*destinationQueue).getPendingFromDatabase" file="github.com/matrix-org/dendritefederationapi/queue/destinationqueue.go:258" error="sqlutil.WithTransaction.Begin: sql: database is closed"
```

[skip ci]

CHANGES.md

@@ -1,23 +1,22 @@
 # Changelog
 
-# Dendrite 0.13.7 (2024-04-08)
+## Dendrite 0.13.7 (2024-04-09)
 
 ### Fixes
 
-- Displayname/avatar of an invited user being replaced with the displayname/avatar of the inviter
+- Fixed an issue where the displayname/avatar of an invited user was replaced with the inviter's details
-- Startup on servers with many rooms should be significantly faster
+- Improved server startup performance by avoiding unnecessary room ACL queries
-  - since not all rooms are queried for ACLs
+  - This change reduces memory footprint as it caches ACL regex patterns once instead of for each room
-  - ACL regexes are cached (also reducing memory footprint, as only one instance of a regex is stored)
+  - Unnecessary Relay related queries have been removed. **Note**: To use relays, you now need to explicitly enable them using the `federation_api.enable_relays` config
-  - unnecessary Relay related queries are removed (**Note**: If you want to use relays, you now need to enable them explicitly using the `federation_api.enable_relays` config)
+- Fixed space summaries over federation
-- Space summaries over federation have been fixed
+- Improved usage of external NATS JetStream by reusing existing connections instead of opening new ones unnecessarily
-- When using external NATS JetStream, an existing connection is reused instead of opening unnecessary new connections
 
 ### Features
 
-- Appservices have been modernized (contributed by [tulir](https://github.com/tulir))
+- Modernized Appservices (contributed by [tulir](https://github.com/tulir))
-- Event reporting has been added (incl. Synapse Admin endpoints to query them)
+- Added event reporting with Synapse Admin endpoints for querying them
-- Dependencies have been updated
+- Updated dependencies
- 
+
 ## Dendrite 0.13.6 (2024-01-26)
 
 Upgrading to this version is **highly** recommended, as it contains several QoL improvements.

federationapi/queue/destinationqueue.go

@@ -294,6 +294,10 @@ func (oq *destinationQueue) checkNotificationsOnClose() {
 
 // backgroundSend is the worker goroutine for sending events.
 func (oq *destinationQueue) backgroundSend() {
+	// Don't try to send transactions if we are shutting down.
+	if oq.process.Context().Err() != nil {
+		return
+	}
 	// Check if a worker is already running, and if it isn't, then
 	// mark it as started.
 	if !oq.running.CompareAndSwap(false, true) {