Update `filters.is_encrypted` and `filters.types`/`filters.not_types` to
be robust when dealing with remote invite rooms in Sliding Sync.
Part of
[MSC3575](https://github.com/matrix-org/matrix-spec-proposals/pull/3575):
Sliding Sync
Follow-up to https://github.com/element-hq/synapse/pull/17434
We now take into account current state, fallback to stripped state
for invite/knock rooms, then historical state. If we can't determine
the info needed to filter a room (either from state or stripped state),
it is filtered out.
